Tetiba hari ini macam naik semangat nak cerita about how our love starts :P Haha. Alkisahnya, terjumpa blog lama Mr.K yang he wrote about that & keep smiling to myself. So, here it goes.
OUR FIRST MEET (6 March 2009)
Its was a week before result SPM keluar. I went cycling to V6 Cafe with Arash & Nadia to have dinner with my coursemates (Farid &Opie). Kononnya they said the food there was nice & Farid pun wanna belanja makan. But then, the food was yucky! HAHA.
After the dinner, we (the girls) go lepak at jalan yang cantik depan Chancellor Hall tu. Then, Zizi came along (cycling too) & asked us to teman him cycling to Petronas to buy roti. Haha. So, we all go by the lake to the Petronas & came back to the same spot to lepak some more.
Pastu nak dijadikan cerita, Zul, Jawe & Acap (Arash ex-schoolmate) pass by (nak balik V6) & tegur Arash tanya how she's going to their school to take the SPM result. Tiba-tiba datang satu kereta senior ni, stop terus bukak tingkap marah ke the boys yang pass by tadi tu tanye 'Kenapa x study?'. What a lame way of cari gaduh, right? Haha. Dah tu siap keluar kereta ni nak marah. 'Aku dah banyak kali tengok korang dengan perempuan x habis-habis. Asyik dating je. Ko tanya la kawan-kawan aku, aku pantang nampak orang dating, mesti aku tegur'. HAHAHA. What?! Kawan-kawa dia pun gelak-gelak. Nampak sangat menipunya weyh! Padahal dia memang x puas hati pasal budak-budak ni x nak join Luxor under dia. Haha. Lame~
Lepas diorang gaduh-gaduh tu (First time tgk lelaki gaduh ok), Zizi pun offer nak hantar kitorang balik V1. Then, he said, tunggu member dia, Khai jap from Court Futsal V5 baru lepas main futsal. So, kitorang just cycling slowly & met this Khai kat depan masjid as he is riding motorbike, he can easily catch us up. Dah sampai V1 tu, diorang introduce laa us to each other. Others dah kenal dia dah sebab pernah makan sama before this.
Tapi dunno how, that night, selamber je I said to him 'Oh, ni ke Khai? Tengok muka sikit?'. HAHA :P Actually, dah pernah dengar cerita pasal mamat ni, but then, I never met him. I dunno how, that sentence slip out my tongue. Haha. He was shocked and just nod. Hehe. Then, I start looking at him atas bawah, sekali nampak pakai short pulak! Memang out ler.
SECOND MEET (8 March 2009)
That night, Zizi ajak dinner sama kat V5. So, me, Arash & Nad go cycling there while Khai & Zizi naik motorbike together. UNFAIR sebab kena naik bukit nak pergi V5 tu & diorang siap gelak-gelak laki kitorang bersusah-payah cycling -,-"
Dah beli makanan & drinks, we sat in front of Waterworld & had dinner. Then, my niece called. Memang cakap Baby laa I love u laa I miss u semua keluar la. After all, she's my baby what? Letak je phone, Khai directly ask me. 'Boyfriend ke?'. I was like, 'Hello, single ok?'. Pastu Zizi said, 'Eh Mas, aku xde nombor ko la, bak!'. So, I just told him. Tetiba nampak si Khai ni pun concentrate dok salin. He said 'saja la simpan nombor kawan-kawan'. Then he made miss call to me & ask me to save his number. I was, 'Ok, I will'.
Pastu malam tu diorang dok memain, dok form family tree. Zizi as Papa, Me as Mama, Khai as my brother (Uncle) & Arash and Nad as anak-anak. Haha.
SPM RESULT (12 March 2009)
The SPM result was announced & I was at home. Then, I start texting my friends asking about their results. Then, terdetik pulak hati nak tanya si Khai ni. So I text him, 'Hi Adik, how's your result?'. He told me, 'Alhamdulillah 10A1. Ko?'. Then I just told him my result. Tetiba he text me, 'Actually, aku ada benda nak bagitau dengan kau. Boleh?'. I was like dup dap dup dap, should I answer no? Should I ignore? But then, I was berfikiran baik, I said, 'Ape?'. He said 'Sebenarnya, aku dah mula suka dengan ko'. HAHAHAHA. A guy who u met 2 times & the first time u ever text him, simply told u he likes u? What a joke. So I reply to him, 'HAHA. Ok la nak p makan. BYE!'.
The day after, early in the morning, he text me again, 'Aku cakap semalam tu betul-betul tau'. I was really cannot believe him, thought he is being bet with someone so that he can tackle me. So, I was like yada yada yada. Haha
After that texting is regular however, I am not really interested to know further about his feelings. Until one day, I feel like testing him, so I told him, 'If u are serious, go talk to my mom'. Then, masa balik cuti or weekend I think, I gave him my mom's phone number & to my surprise, HE CALLED!
My naughty mommy put him on speaker so that I can listen to everything he said. To our shocked, when my mom said, 'Jangan la kacau Mastura. Kalau dia x suka, respect la dia', he replied, 'Tapi x salahkan Makcik kalau nak sayang kat orang even orang tu x sayang kat kita?'. HAHAHAHA. Ibu memang terkejut terus cuak sebab berani sangat. After that, I never replied his texts though he text me everyday asking if I had my breakfast, my lunch, my dinner, good morning, good night & so on. Haha
One day, I got another bad news about him, about him tackling some other girls apart from me. Haaa memang marah laa. How come a guy who dare enough to call my mom do this kind of thing? Actually memang saja nak test power jugak la kan masa tu. Tengok takat mana he can stay.
So, I text him, 'Ewah, dengar cerita dok mengorat lagi dua tiga orang. Hebat ko kan?' Dia marah giler kot. HAHA. So dipendekkan cerita, we just baik balik after he said he didn't do it etc etc.
Then, masa mommy pergi UK, I was down as I can't go with them. So, I will cry on the phone to Khai. I dunno why, but maybe his character yang penyayang & penyabar make me comfortable with. Then on my birthday, he made a little surprise to me by giving me flowers ;) *Masa tu dah start berbunga-bunga cinta laa*
Then on the 3rd May malam, I confessed to him that I kinda like him & maybe I can accept him. He cried! (HAHA sorry b, I reveal it here) He was so happy & he promise a mountain of gold! Haha tipu. He promise that he'll take care of me & so on.
HOUSE VISIT (5 July 2009)
He came to my house to meet my family. After interview session, we ate lunch and my father said to him, 'Pakcik ni kurang anak lelaki, so, nak mintak Khai jaga la anak pakcik ni masa dia kat sana'. HAHA.
*Forward ke 3 tahun kemudian*
ENGAGEMENT (7 July 2012)
We got engaged after a hard & challenging relationship. Ikutkan hati, kitorang nak kahwin masa first year lagi. Siap pernah plan nak kahwin lari kat Sungai Golok. HAHAHA. But Alhamdulillah we didn't do that :P Though it was hard to reach this stage, my heart still no believe that we can make it to the marriage -,-"
AKAD NIKAH (3 May 2013)
On our fourth anniversary, Alhamdulillah, we got married :) We are happy, Alhamdulillah. And our relationship is back to square one where most his unknown part is revealed & I need to cope with that. HAHA
Oh, ada sekali tu, tengok seniors going for Convo Dinner (I think in First Year or Second Year), he always say, insya-Allah masa datang Convo Dinner tu, kita pegang tangan dah, dah kahwin dah :')
So, today is the 191th Day of being married. Siapa sangka orang yang masa first time jumpa tu, kita langsung x suka, ada je salah dia yang kita nampak, akhirnya dah halal menjadi suami di dunia & insya-Allah wildan syurga nanti? Maybe ada parts of him yang kita x suka, tapi x salah kita tegur dia, dia didik kita, kan? Like I don't like guys wearing shorts, so, I tell him & ask him to change. Alhamdulillah he did it. Actually lepas tu dapat tau, he was wearing shorts because one of his friend borrowed his inner & didn't return. Hehe
Thank you Allah, families & friends who had been supportive enough to our relationship. Insya-Allah, we will be better muslim & muslimah from day to day. Ameen~ :)
That's all for now, Assalamualaikum :)