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Bismillahhirrahmannirrahim
Assalamualaikum & Hi everyone :)

Today nak ceritalah sedikit sebanyak dugaan masa bertunang especially bila tarikh nikah dah semakin dekat..jgn salah faham yg bertunang is all about dugaan & dugaan..masa awal-awal dulu nak bertunang,sangatlah takut sebab org asyik cerita masa tunang nk macam-macamlah dugaan datang..tapi bila tunang sendiri & handle sendiri preparation nak kahwin tu,rasanya dugaan itu ada walaupun jarang-jarang tapi murah rezeki & dipermudahkan jalan oleh Allah tu lagi banyak dari dugaan..

Masa awal-awal bertunang, memang xde rasa apa yg bertukar pun..kami masih belum halal utk each other..keluar still bawak kwn-kwn, bwk family..nak pergi beli cincin pun bawak family :) selain menjaga adab,family can give opinions bout the ring we choose..tunang makes nothing change..yg tukar ialah bila kenalkan Mr.K kat org,I'll say he's my fiance..its no more bakal tunang or my special friend..he's my fiance which is my husband to be..

Dugaan yg dtg menguji ialah jarak antara kami..masa tu Mr.K dpt offer intern at Bosch Penang..he accept it & I was super duper happy thinking we'll be near to each other..tapi,Allah lagi tahu..he then got offer from Petron Refinery in PD! Tapi sbb elaun yg banyak & I know his interest in Oil & Gas, I support him to go there & redha dgn jarak ini..we both believe,dgn jarak ni,Allah nak pastikan kami terjaga dari buat benda-benda mungkar..bila jauh ni,trust will be built & a new feeling (rindu) will be learnt ;)

However,dugaan ni x ambil masa yg lama utk kami adapt as we used to be far during the 4 months holiday given by UTP..that was when we learnt to trust each other & start to give each other some space..

Dugaan-dugaan kecil mcm bergaduh sbb terasa hati tu ada la walaupun x byk..biase la dah duduk jauh ni kalau dia busy xley ckp fon ke,he's too tired after his futsal game ke,I'll feel extra sad..haha..silly me..tapi Alhamdulillah x pernah berlarutan sbbnye Mr.K is a very patient guy who never scold or be mad at me..seriously,I admire him for that..even I say harsh words when I'm mad he'll just say,'syg,bykkan istighfar,bwk mengucap..benda mcm ni boleh setel dgn ckp kan?now,u tell me ape yg syg x puas hati..b nak dengar'..tapi I'm a very stubborn girl,sometimes I listen & explain everything but sometime I just continue to naik hantu..hahaha

Alhamdulillah my family yg awesome ada di sisi..diorg always teman when it comes to wedding preparations..kadang-kadang tu sedih la tgk org g tempah kad la,g butik pengantin la dgn tunang..kite pergi dgn ibu je..haha..tapi nasib baik ada ibu..if not? Haa nauzubillah :(

We are really lucky to have sporting & understanding family..sometimes my mom will ajak to go to my sis house in Bandar Seri Putra & I can meet Mr.K there as its near to PD..sometimes Mr.K's mom will ajak Mr.K to come to Penang & meet me :) ada jugak yg Mr.K xde pun but his mama &  abah come to my house :) lucky me :')

Next,its not a dugaan,more than advantage I think..bila dah tunang,we got the cincin di jari kan? Its good since no guy are brave enough to come and simply flirt with us..in a way,we r protected ;) as long as we know how to protect our own self..ada jugak org yg dah bertunang tapi melayan lelaki lain kan?haram tau ;) wallahualam

So,whatever dugaan yg datang,insya-Allah ada hikmahnya. Walau byk mana Allah nak uji kita,lebih dari tu Allah akan tolong :)

Tapi satu je,jgn bertunang terlampau lama :) seelok-eloknya kurang dari 6 bulan..kami ni tunang for 10 months which is long! Mcm dah x larat nak tunggu bila nak kawen..eh? Hahaha :P

That's all for now ;)

Assalamualaikum :)